September 30, 2011

Because its powerful and a great reminder

I found this one day when I was struggling with pumping and providing for Twinkle Toes.  I think it is very inspiring and a great reminder for those who may have only (and I say that with the utmost respect) been able to nurse/pump for a few months.  Don't be so hard on yourself ladies.  What you did, if even for a few days, is an amazing feat and you shoudl be proud. 


IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR JUST A FEW DAYS, he will have received your colostrum, or early milk. By providing antibodies and the food his brand-new body expects, nursing gives your baby his first - and easiest - "immunization" and helps get his digestive system going smoothly. Breastfeeding is how your baby expects to start, and helps your own body recover from the birth. Why not use your time in the hospital to prepare your baby for life through the gift of nursing?

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR FOUR TO SIX WEEKS, you will have eased him through the most critical part of his infancy. Newborns who are not breastfed are much more likely to get sick or be hospitalized, and have many more digestive problems than breastfed babies. After 4 to 6 weeks, you'll probably have worked through any early nursing concerns, too. Make a serious goal of nursing for a month, call La Leche League or a Lactation Consultant if you have any questions, and you'll be in a better position to decide whether continued breastfeeding is for you.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR 4 MONTHS, her digestive system will have matured a great deal, and she will be much better able to tolerate the foreign substances in commercial formulas. If there is a family history of allergies, though, you will greatly reduce her risk by waiting a few more months before adding anything at all to her diet of breastmilk. And giving nothing but your milk for the first four months gives strong protection against ear infections for a whole year.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR 6 MONTHS, she will be much less likely to suffer an allergic reaction to formula or other foods. At this point, her body is probably ready to tackle some other foods, whether or not you wean. Nursing for at least 6 months helps ensure better health throughout your baby's first year of life, and reduces your own risk of breast cancer. Nursing for 6 months or more may greatly reduce your little one's risk of ear infections and childhood cancers. And exclusive, frequent breastfeeding during the first 6 months, if your periods have not returned, provides 98% effective contraception.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR 9 MONTHS, you will have seen him through the fastest and most important brain and body development of his life on the food that was designed for him - your milk. You may even notice that he is more alert and more active than babies who did not have the benefit of their mother's milk. Weaning may be fairly easy at this age... but then, so is nursing! If you want to avoid weaning this early, be sure you've been available to nurse for comfort as well as just for food.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR A YEAR, you can avoid the expense and bother of formula. Her one-year-old body can probably handle most of the table foods your family enjoys. Many of the health benefits this year of nursing has given your child will last her whole life. She will have a stronger immune system, for instance, and will be much less likely to need orthodontia or speech therapy. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends nursing for at least a year, to help ensure normal nutrition and health for your baby.

IF YOU NURSE YOUR BABY FOR 24 MONTHS, you will have continued to provide your baby's normal nutrition and protection against illness at a time when illness is common in other babies. Your baby is probably well started on table foods, too. He has had time to form a solid bond with you - a healthy starting point for his growing independence. And he is old enough that you and he can work together on the weaning process, at a pace that he can handle comfortably. A former U.S. Surgeon General said, "It is the lucky baby...that nurses to age two." [AAFP statement on nursing until at least 24 months.]

IF YOUR CHILD WEANS WHEN SHE IS READY, you can feel confident that you have met your baby's physical and emotional needs in a very normal, healthy way. In cultures where there is no pressure to wean, children tend to nurse for at least three years. The World Health Organization and UNICEF strongly encourage breastfeeding through toddlerhood: "Breastmilk is an important source of energy and protein, and helps to protect against disease during the child's second year of life."(1)Our biology seems geared to a weaning age of between 4 and 7 years(2), and it just makes sense to build our children's bones from the milk that was designed to build them.

September 8, 2011

I've been MIA

I’m sure some people noticed!  Sorry about that. 
Without warning I had to have ANOTHER surgery as I had retained gallstones.  I was super sick and was really jaundiced and it all happened around Twinkle Toes First Birthday.  What a bummer!
But I’m back and ready to finish up the posts regarding TT’s birth story.
Thanks for being so patient.
Momma J

July 20, 2011

Looking back - a year ago today

I've never really shared my "birth story" so I felt I'd write a daily blog post documented that days that led up to TT's birth.  It will be a long read.


A year ago today, everything in my seemingly normal pregnancy changed!  But And changed dramatically.  It scared me to death.  I was 32 weeks, 2 days pregnant.


Around Midnight 7/20/2010, I woke up to an excruciating headache.  I had never had a headache that bad.  I got up, went to the bathroom, drank a huge glass of water and took several Tylenol.  I was miserable.  Twinkle Toes was not awake and moving, which was fine with me. 


I got an ice pack to put on my forehead, laid back in bed and tried to go back to sleep but the headache wouldn't budge.  Around 1 am, I move to the couch and sat upright with the ice pack on the top of my head.  A half hour later, still no relief from the ice pack or Tylenol.  I drank more water and still nothing.   I started to wonder about Pre-E but just figured the headache was due to being a bit dehydrated or sinus related and I brushed it off at that point.


Around 3 am, I started looking up Pre Eclampsia in three different books.  I knew and had had the feeling for a few months that I had Pre-E.  I just really felt deep in my heart that I had it.  Don't ask me why but I did.


During my last few OB appts. I had asked and complained about the swelling that I was experiencing, especially in my ankles and feet.  I hadn't been able to wear my wedding ring since about 18 weeks.  If I had only known!  I had read a few times about the symptoms of preeclampsia but never worried that I had it.  Every OB appt I had left urine specimens but nothing ever showed up that was indicative of Pre-E.  They always told me it was due to my age and the heat of July. 


At 4:30 am Mister B woke up to get ready for work and told me I didn't look good. I knew I had a half day of work since I had my first Gestational Diabetes class.  I knew that I had to stop by the OB's office for a BP re-check anyway since it had been missed at my last appointment.  The OB's office and GD class were just doors down from each other!  I knew I'd just mention the headache then.


I knew I could work till 11 am and then leave for my GD class, piece of cake.  I was just really focused on banking PTO so I could spend the time with TT after her arrival, which was 7 weeks away.


The headache was still there while at work.  I wrapped up my day, drove the 45 minutes to the OB office and was escorted back to the exam room where they took my BP.  And then it all changed and felt like things were crashing around me.


I was told to immediately lay down on my left side, don't talk, don't move, close my eyes, relax and think peaceful thoughts and they'd be back with the DOCTOR in a few minutes.  Umm ok but Holy Shit, why or you over reacting?  My BP was 221/113!!!!


The doctor rushed in and told me not to move and asked me questions in a very calm fashion.  Some of them were: How did I get to there office, Is anyone home to come take me to the hospital, Where is my husband, How do I feel, How long has the headache lasted, and How long as the swelling been that bad?  Well, doc, I've mentioned it to all of you numerous times!  I was scared.  Things started to just swirl around me.  Like "labor and delivery", "deliver now", "prematurity", "steroid shots", "Seizures", "Stroke", etc.


At this point, my husband was out of state for his job but on the way back.  His job requires that he drives a hazardous materials truck and breaking this kind of news, "you're wife is being admitted to L&D" is not something I wanted to just casually break to him.  I chose to wait to call him for a bit.


My BP didn't change while in the office.  So I was wheeled over to Labor & Delivery and put into a special monitoring room.  I was in tears which spiked the BP even more.  My parents were called and asked to come down.  It was the scariest day yet.  The stupid nurse told them that I was in jeopardy of having a stroke or seizure.  It was a very stressful drive for them!


I had known from reading various blogs that it is vitally important for steroid shots in cases where an early delivery could be imminent.  So when asked I immediately said yes.  I was hooked up with an IV, and numerous monitors.  I could hear TT moving around a ton - kicking at the monitor from time to time which made me laugh in a otherwise crappy moment.  A 24 hr urine collection was started. 


After I was settled a bit, I called my husband and told him to safely pull over and call me back.  When he called me back, it took everything I had to remain calm and quietly and calmly explain the situation and ask that he come  to the hospital.  He was scared shitless, needless to say!


Once he arrived, they administered the Steroid Shot!   Holy pain batman!  The steroid is administered into the muscle which when immediately poked with the needle will seize up and cramp.  And there was blood everywhere.  My husband passed out watching this - Wuss! 


By 8 pm, I was moved into an Antepartum room to spend the night.  My husband was on his way home to pick up some clothes and other necessities for me and to get a good nights sleep.  It was official, I was on hospital bed rest with a goal of sticking it out for at least 5 more weeks in that room.  Ugh - but I was willing to do it to help our daughter grow and develop.


To be continued tomorrow.....
Momma J

July 4, 2011

Happy Fourth of July!!

Twinkle Toes would like to wish each of you a Happy Fourth of July! 

Enjoy your day,
Wear your Patriotic swimsuits,
enjoy from good libations and yummy BBQ, 
and lounge around today!
And please be safe with all of your fireworks displays!

June 25, 2011

Twinkle Toes is ELEVEN months old!

Twinkle Toes - you are ELEVEN months old today!
Adjusted/corrected age of 40 weeks!


What are you up to these days???

You weigh approx 20 pounds but this is purely a guess
You wear a size 3 diaper and wear 9 mos. and 12 month clothes


·    You had your first swim class and you just sat back (in daddy’s arms) and took it all in.  You are such a people watcher!
·    You are now crawling
·    Daddy celebrated his first Fathers’ day with you!
·    You used the big swing at the park for the first time!
·    You are finally eating puffs without issue!
·    You have a GREAT appetite and there are very few things you refuse to eat. You eat 3 good solid meals a day.  You still eat several good sized bottles daily!

·    You tried Mandarin Oranges and whole bites of Avocado and loved both.
·    You know that switches turn on and off lights!
·    We had to adjust your jumperoo to level 2!!
·    Your Robeez finally fit without making you look like a clown!
·    You are pulling up and have your first bruise on your head to prove it!
·    You are sleeping 9 hours at night. And you take a good nap every morning.  You go to bed around 7:30 pm every night
·    You are EVERYWHERE!!! You spend all day crawling, getting into everything and exploring. You are a BUSY girl while everyone that watches you are tired/worn out. :-)
·    You still have 2 teeth and you top two keep trying to break thru but nothing official yet.
·    You love to pull your books out of your bookcase now.  You'll look thru the pages too. 
·    You LOVE bath time. You'll splash in the water and just sit back and enjoy it. 

I CAN NOT believe you will be a year old in a month. This has been the most amazing year of my life.
11 Month Stats:
Bedtime: Between 7:30 & 8:15 pm
Wake Up Time: around 4:30 am
Naps: about 2 times a day with numerous catnaps too
Bottles: 6 oz bottles, consuming around 24oz daily
New Foods: Various meet dinners and puffs and chunkier items are no longer an issue!  Mandarin Oranges
Developmental Milestones: Crawling forward!!!
Favorite Toys: Scout, anything that stacks and anything with music.
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